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How to Raise Confident Kids Who Communicate Well and Make Good Decisions with Gary Lundy, EP172

• Dori Durbin • Season 3 • Episode 172

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Are you raising kids who can communicate confidently, make good decisions, and handle life's challenges without you stepping in?

In this episode of That's Good Parenting, Dori Durbin talks with Gary Lundy, automotive sales leader, father, and founder of Whose Will Wins, about teaching children the communication skills, independence, and decision-making abilities they'll need throughout their lives.

With nearly 30 years of experience working with people, Gary has seen firsthand how listening, asking questions, and taking responsibility influence success. As a father, he's also learning how difficult—and important—it can be to step back and let children figure things out for themselves.

Gary also shares how his personal journey through sobriety, faith, and recovery has shaped the lessons he hopes to pass along to his daughter.

Together, Dori and Gary explore:

  • Teaching kids to listen, ask questions, and communicate confidently
  • Helping children make independent decisions without taking over
  • Recognizing when helicopter parenting may be holding kids back
  • Building patience and responsibility in a world of instant gratification
  • Developing the interpersonal skills employers look for in young adults
  • Creating a relationship where kids feel safe discussing mistakes and asking for help

Raising independent kids doesn't mean leaving them to figure everything out alone. Sometimes the most important thing parents can do is listen, offer guidance, and give children room to practice making their own decisions.

About Gary Lundy

Gary Lundy is an automotive sales leader at Bell Ford Lincoln in Adrian, Michigan, a husband, father, and founder of Whose Will Wins, a faith-and-recovery platform.

Sober since August 7, 2011, Gary shares how his experiences with addiction, personal growth, faith, and accountability have changed the way he approaches relationships, fatherhood, and everyday decisions.

Through Whose Will Wins, Gary encourages others to examine their choices, embrace personal responsibility, and discover a better way forward.

Learn more about Gary:

https://whosewillwins.com/

About Dori Durbin

Dori Durbin is a children's book illustrator, book coach, and host of the That's Good Parenting podcast.

She helps parenting experts and family-focused professionals kid-size their big concepts into children's books so families can continue learning important expert content long after a podcast episode, coaching session, or conversation ends.

https://www.doridurbin.com/

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